Tuesday, November 20, 2012



I'm at the doctor's office.  Here for the 2 hour blood glucose testing that is required around the 28th week of pregnancy.  I'm 28 1/2 weeks so it's my time.  Apparently the protocol has changed since my last pregnancies.  It used to be that you drank the orange drink (pictured above) at home first thing in the morning, then drove to the lab, had your blood drawn and that was it.  Done deal.  Now, things have changed.  You have to come to the lab after fasting 12 hours, have your blood drawn, pound down the orange drink within 5 minutes, wait an hour, have your blood drawn again, then wait another hour and have it drawn again.  So the entire thing takes up at least 3 hours of your time with the drive to the lab, etc.  I was pretty annoyed at first- very inconvenient for a full time mom since it meant either Myke has to take off work (which means he doesn't get paid) OR we have to pay a babysitter to watch the kids while I do the test.  We chose the latter.  So we're paying for a sitter and we don't even to go out on a date night!  Oh well.  It is what it is.  I asked my midwife what would be the repercussions if I decided to just NOT do the test at all.  She said it would make me be labeled as a  "high risk pregnancy" and I would have to be on all kind of monitoring during labor, and would probably have to switch to a high-risk OB instead of my midwife.  Back to Dr. Schwimmer maybe?  Anyways, I decided it was worth paying a sitter to NOT be considered a high-risk pregnancy again.  Been there, done that already!  I don't have time to be high-risk.  I have 3 little kids.  I don't have time to be on bed rest.  I barely have time to go to my monthly midwife visits.  In fact, I scheduled them all at 6pm or later on the night the clinic is open for evening hours.  That way Myke is home and no babysitter is required.     It's just so different than the last 2 pregnancies where I couldn't wait for my appointments.  Well, of course when I was on bed rest those appointments were my ticket out of bed and my ticket for a taste of the real world outside of our home.  I LOVED those appointments.  I got ultrasounds so regularly then...every week or every other week (I forget).   In this pregnancy I've had maybe 2.  This pregnancy is "normal".  Thank goodness!  

On to other news:  We ARE IN ESCROW!!   We have been looking at houses for a long time.  At least the past year or more- mainly just browsing the real estate market online and seeing what was out there.  We decided last winter that we'd stay in our condo in PB for 2 more years tops.  Then the boys would be 2 1/2 and Chloe would be turning 5.  We wanted to be settled somewhere before she started kindergarten.  Then this surprise pregnancy happened and we realized we probably had to get out of here sooner rather than later.  We started looking a little more seriously.  However, we weren't/aren't uncomfortable enough to feel desperate to get out.  We were just looking around....putting the feelers out, if you will.  We even started considering moving to another state since real estate is so pricey in southern California and we have some very specific needs (we need enough rooms for 4 kids, we need a space for Myke's office since he works from home,..and this space needs to be isolated enough from the rest of the house so he can actually get some work done, we wanted a yard, we needed good schools as private school for 4 kids so close in age is out of the question, etc.).  Anyways, to make a long story short, we ended up finding a house that we really liked in Encinitas, CA.  It's in San Diego County but is up north a bit.  From our exit to the new home's exit is a 20 minute drive if you aren't driving during rush hour times.  Anyways, we're pretty excited about the change...we are ready for it.  We love Pacific Beach but we are ready for something new.  Encinitas is a great beach community with a lot of families and great schools.  We will now be about 2.5 miles from the ocean instead of .75 of a mile...but with all our kids and gear we end up driving anyways when we go for a beach day.  It's a quiet neighborhood with a great park just a couple blocks away that we can easily walk to.  The park has a huge grass area so we can even take Kyla and let her run around.  We're so excited about that...Kyla has chunked up a bit in the past couple years....we don't get her out on as many exercise runs/walks as we used to.  Also, there are enough bedrooms for everyone.  The boys are going to have to share a room, still...but it's a really big room that could even be split into two rooms if you really wanted to.  We'll play that one by ear.  Even the new baby will get her own room.  Anyways, we'll keep everyone posted.  We don't close until next week but so far everything is looking good for a successful close.  Yay!

A look at the front entrance


Well, just a few more minutes until my 2nd blood draw for this glucose test.  I'm STARVING and drinking the sugary orange drink on an empty stomach has not been too fun.  It's making the baby jump all around which adds to the slight feeling of nausea I have.  I'll survive though!

Tuesday, November 6, 2012

Vay-Cay! We ACTUALLY Went Somewhere!


This is what we look like on vacation!!  Don't we look well-rested??  
NOT.
Oh well, nothing some coffee & tea couldn't fix :)



We went on a little family get-away to Idyllwild, CA this past weekend.  I think it was our very first "vacation" with just the 5 of us (6 if you count the dog!).  Usually our vacation time is spent visiting family (which of course we love...) but it was fun to take a little trip with just the kids.  Chloë was really excited that we were going on a vacation.  Our last vacation was to Santa Barbara for a long weekend in July so we were definitely due for a little R & R (haha, that's SUCH a joke...going on a trip with three kids three and under is in NO way a recipe that includes anything even relatively CLOSE to R & R!!).  Anyways, it was a fun time.  Idyllwild is a little mountain town in the San Jacinto Mountains, about a 2 hour drive from where we live in Pacific Beach.  It's an artsy-type of town with a lot of hiking, mountain climbing, and other active options (none of which we did with 3 small kids!).  Anyways, the whole plan was to rent a mountain cabin, go and just chill...with no expectations or busy schedules..and that's just what we did.  It was a great getaway, and we realize probably one of the last before Baby #4 makes her appearance in a few months...and I don't know if we'll actually ever go ANYWHERE with 4 kids!  So this may have been our very LAST vacation EVER!   

 (but let's hope not!)




Stopping for lunch in Temecula on the way.



Chloë in Idyllwild


Delicious fruit smoothies for snack time






Elijah



Eating dinner on our cabin wrap-around deck




Moi & Owen



Eli wandering around the Nature Center grounds


Breakfast at the big table (the boys LOVE when they don't have to sit in high chairs)



Thursday, November 1, 2012

Goodbye October!


The kids in costume! 2012





I took Owen on a "date night" a couple weeks ago.  I was actually planning on taking Chloë to this Halloween carnival over at Balboa Park that Saturday night, originally.  However, she woke up from her afternoon nap in a MAJOR funk.  She was a mess.  Could not get herself together and was just ridiculously cranky for no reason.  Soooo, I took Owen instead (yes, she was dismayed, but lesson learned (I hope)).  To be honest, I know this is something Myke and I should do more often with the boys: take them out one-on-one.  It's just very difficult to do on a regular basis.  We usually either have Chloë or the boys.  Never just one of the boys.  It just doesn't happen that way.  We need to make more of a point to change that.  So Owen & I headed to the carnival...and we had an absolute blast!  I think he really liked being the "only child" for a few hours.  Most of the carnival was geared toward toddler-age kids, but we still had a good time.  Owen is a very happy little guy.  He's always up for a good time, always laughing and ready to run to you and give you hugs.  He's just an absolute joy to be around.  Such a sweetie-pie.  It was nice to get some time together...just myself and my oldest (by one minute) son :)





putting rings on the pumpkins






In other Halloween happenings, Chloë's preschool went on a field trip to the neighborhood pumpkin patch last Friday.  I decided to take the boys and walk along with the class from their school to the patch (her preschool is only a couple blocks away and the pumpkin patch is about 5 blocks past that).  It was a HOT day out, but still fun.  The school's 5th grade class accompanied the preschool class to the patch.  Each preschool child had one or two "buddies" with them.  These are the same buddies that sit with them during the all-school chapel days they attend monthly.  So I finally got to see who Chloë's "chapel buddies" where.  Two 5th grade boys!  Let me tell you, Chloë was on cloud 9 with a 5th grade boy on either side of her holding her hand!  She barely looked at me when I got there- she was just so excited!  The 5th graders were great with the little kids.  They held their hands on the entire walk down, helped them pick out their pumpkins, and just generally took their job of taking care of the kids very seriously.  I was definitely chopped liver in comparison to her new big-boy friends!  




At least Owen & Eli still need me! :)


getting her pumpkin


Owen


Eli


the kids

Chloë's 5th grade "helpers"/buddies

Chloë's buddies admiring her new Spiderman watch


Walking with her buddies



A few pictures from the Halloween Carnival at the Pacific Beach Rec Center:

My superhero boys!


She's such a girlie-girl!



Owen has been lifting weights lately


Eli, Superman!


Daddy & Superman




Last but not least:  Halloween!!  

We went trick-or-treating with our friends Kara & Jon and their son, Jax (who is one of Chloë's bestest friends).  We had gone with them last year as well and had made a date to do it again this year in the neighborhood of BirdRock.  We ended up leaving Owen & Eli at home with a babysitter this year, but next year I'm sure they'll be more than ready to join the festivities.  

Chloë & Jax


Aren't Myke & I a lovely couple?!


Pre-Trick-or-Treating


Post Trick-or-Treating